Janitor AI
The biggest community-character scene, with plenty of freedom on the website and, since February 2026, apps for iOS and Android. It runs in the cloud: when Janitor AI is down you wait, and your chats live on its servers.
Best for: a huge character library, if you can live with the odd outage.
SpicyChat
More than 300,000 characters and one of the most generous free plans around, with adult content allowed. There is no app-store app — it runs in the browser — and free accounts see ads and get a shorter memory.
Best for: trying lots of characters for free in a browser.
Perchance
Open the page and start talking: no account, free and unlimited. Making a character is a simple form. It is basic, browser-only, and quality varies from chat to chat.
Best for: starting this second with nothing to sign up for.
Replika
The longest-running companion app: polished, with voice calls and AR. Romantic mode is for Pro subscribers only and is deliberately “warm but not explicit”.
Best for: a mainstream companion app, if you are happy to subscribe.
SillyTavern
A free, open-source front end you run yourself and connect to a model — a paid API, or one running on your own PC. Maximum control and, with a local model, full privacy. Setting it up is technical, and good local models need a strong computer.
Best for: tinkerers who want full control.
Afterdark ours
Runs entirely on your Android phone: no server holds your chats, there is nothing to go down, and it keeps working offline once the model (about 3 GB) is downloaded. Romantic and sensual but never graphic, with voice and video calls, bedtime stories and a relationship that grows from friends to partners. Four ready-made characters, or write your own. The limits: Android only (no iPhone, no web), the on-device model is smaller than the big cloud ones, and there is no community library.
Best for: privacy, no outages and offline use on Android.